Family reviewing financial documents and funding options for respite care services

Last Updated: November 24, 2025

How to Pay for Respite Care

Many families worry about the cost of respite care, but multiple funding sources can help make these services affordable. Medicare covers respite care through hospice programs, Medicaid offers state-specific waivers, VA benefits support veterans and their families, and numerous grants and community programs provide financial assistance. Understanding your options helps you access the relief you need without financial strain.

Does Medicare pay for respite care?

Medicare coverage for respite care is limited but valuable for eligible families:

Medicare Hospice Benefit

  • Coverage: Up to 5 consecutive days of respite care in a Medicare-approved facility
  • Eligibility: Care recipient must be enrolled in Medicare hospice benefits
  • Cost: You pay 5% of the Medicare-approved amount for respite care (approximately $200-250 for 5 days)
  • Frequency: Can be used multiple times, but only 5 consecutive days per respite period
  • Settings: Hospital, nursing home, or hospice facility (not in-home)

What Medicare Does NOT Cover

  • In-home respite care outside hospice programs
  • Adult day programs
  • Respite care for non-hospice patients
  • More than 5 consecutive days per respite period

How does Medicaid cover respite care?

Medicaid offers more comprehensive respite care coverage through state-administered programs:

Home and Community-Based Services (HCBS) Waivers

Most states offer Medicaid waivers that include respite care services:

  • In-home respite: Professional caregivers provide care in the home
  • Adult day programs: Supervised care in group settings
  • Overnight respite: Short-term stays in facilities
  • Emergency respite: Last-minute care for unexpected situations

Eligibility Requirements

  • Care recipient must qualify for Medicaid
  • Must meet state-specific functional or medical criteria
  • Often requires assessment by case manager
  • May have waiting lists in some states

State-Specific Programs

Coverage varies significantly by state. Contact your state Medicaid office or local Area Agency on Aging to learn about:

  • Available waiver programs
  • Covered services and hours
  • Application process
  • Current wait times

VA benefits for respite care

The Department of Veterans Affairs offers several programs to help veterans and their families access respite care:

VA Respite Care Programs

  • Homemaker and Home Health Aide Care: In-home assistance for eligible veterans
  • Adult Day Health Care: VA medical center-based day programs
  • Respite Care: Short-term institutional respite (up to 30 days per year)
  • Hospice Care: End-of-life care including respite services

Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers (PCAFC)

  • Eligibility: Veterans with serious injuries or illnesses incurred or aggravated in the line of duty
  • Benefits: Monthly stipend, training, mental health services, and up to 30 days of respite care per year
  • Respite options: In-home care, adult day programs, or institutional care

How to Apply

  • Contact your local VA medical center
  • Speak with a VA social worker or caregiver support coordinator
  • Call the VA Caregiver Support Line: 1-855-260-3274
  • Visit www.caregiver.va.gov

Long-term care insurance

Many long-term care insurance policies include respite care benefits:

  • Typical coverage: 14-21 days of respite care per year
  • Settings covered: In-home care, adult day programs, or facility-based care
  • Payment structure: May be included in daily benefit amount or separate rider
  • Requirements: Usually requires care recipient to meet policy's benefit triggers

Review your policy documents or contact your insurance company to understand your specific respite care coverage.

National Family Caregiver Support Program (NFCSP)

This federal program provides grants to states for caregiver services:

  • Eligibility: Caregivers of adults 60 or older, or grandparents/relatives raising children under 18
  • Services: Respite care, caregiver training, counseling, and support groups
  • Access: Contact your local Area Agency on Aging
  • Cost: Services often provided on sliding-scale basis

Nonprofit and community resources

Disease-Specific Organizations

  • Alzheimer's Association: Grants and programs for dementia care respite
  • American Cancer Society: Transportation and respite assistance
  • ALS Association: Respite grants for ALS families
  • Parkinson's Foundation: Caregiver support and respite resources

Faith-Based Organizations

  • Many churches, synagogues, and religious groups offer volunteer respite care
  • Parish nurse programs may provide health-focused respite
  • Faith-based nonprofits often have sliding-scale fee programs

Local Programs

  • Area Agencies on Aging: Information, referral, and sometimes direct respite funding
  • Lifespan Respite programs: State-based coordination of respite services
  • ARCH National Respite Network: Resources at archrespite.org

Other payment options

Health Savings Accounts (HSA) and Flexible Spending Accounts (FSA)

  • May be used for qualified medical expenses including some respite care
  • Check with your plan administrator about eligible services
  • Requires prescription or letter of medical necessity in some cases

Reverse Mortgages

  • Allows homeowners 62+ to access home equity
  • Can be used to pay for respite care and other services
  • Requires careful consideration of long-term implications

Crowdfunding and Community Support

  • Platforms like GoFundMe for medical and caregiver expenses
  • Meal trains and volunteer networks to reduce overall care burden
  • Local caregiver support groups may have resource sharing

How to find and apply for funding

Step-by-Step Approach

  1. Contact your local Area Agency on Aging: They can assess your situation and connect you with available programs
  2. Review existing insurance coverage: Check Medicare, Medicaid, VA benefits, and private insurance
  3. Explore disease-specific organizations: If applicable to your loved one's condition
  4. Research state and local programs: Many states have unique respite care funding
  5. Apply to multiple sources: Don't rely on a single funding stream
  6. Keep detailed records: Document all care needs, costs, and funding applications

Tips for maximizing funding

  • Apply early: Many programs have waiting lists or limited annual funding
  • Be thorough with documentation: Medical records, care plans, and financial statements
  • Work with a social worker: Hospital or clinic social workers can identify funding sources
  • Combine funding sources: Use multiple programs to cover different aspects of care
  • Ask about sliding-scale fees: Many agencies adjust rates based on income
  • Consider shared care: Coordinate with family members to reduce individual costs

Key Takeaways

  • Medicare covers respite care through hospice programs (up to 5 days at a time)
  • Medicaid offers more comprehensive coverage through state HCBS waivers
  • VA benefits provide significant support for veterans and their families
  • Multiple nonprofit and community programs offer grants and sliding-scale services
  • Combining funding sources makes respite care more affordable
  • Early application and thorough documentation improve approval chances

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